Tag: choices

  • Wrong Choice

    In Numbers, we see the time when the nation of Israel was just about to enter the promised land. They had defeated two other kings, and there was another king, Balak, who saw that the Israelite army was too strong for him. He formed a federation with the Midianites, but even that was not strong enough. He decided to seek supernatural help.

    Balaam was known as a prophet of the LORD, the true God, even though he was not part of the nation of Israel. King Balak was not a godly man, but he knew he needed help. It’s like some people today who never think about God until they face a crisis, then they ask everyone to pray for them.

    These elders had to travel over 400 miles to get to Balaam, bringing money and gifts for the prophet. Even though Balaam was a prophet, he also had a problem with greed, which we will see shortly.
    Balaam told the men to stay there that night, so he could have time to ask God what to do.

    God told Balaam clearly that He did not want Balaam to go back with them. Even though Balaam really wanted the riches, he did what God told him to do. He told the elders to go back to Balak.

    King Balak knew that he didn’t have any choices; he had to try again. He sent even more important people, more of them, and even more money.

    Balaam told these elders that it didn’t matter how much money Balak gave him; he could only do what God told him to do.
    He still wanted the riches, though, so he told them to spend the night again, so he could ask God again. God had already told Balaam that the Israelites were blessed, and that he should not leave to curse them. The riches of this world can be very tempting.

    Right about now, Balaam was probably thinking that he was really special. He had actually convinced God to change His mind! God told him he could go, but that’s not really what God wanted him to do.
    Balaam still had a lot to learn.

    It seems that it’s way too easy for us to convince ourselves that either our plans are God’s plans, or at the very least, God will bless our plans. Balaam is about to find out what happens when greed blinds a man of God.

    The “mighty prophet Balaam” could not see the angel of the LORD, but a dumb donkey could. Spiritually blind Balaam could not see what was right in front of him. Instead, he felt that he knew best, and he struck his donkey, to get her to go where he wanted.

    The donkey had saved his life, but Balaam was clueless. Now, she saves his life again, but Balaam is still completely clueless.

    For a third time, the donkey saves Balaam’s life, but he just gets angrier.

    The scripture doesn’t say, but it doesn’t seem like Balaam was all that surprised that his donkey was speaking. It could be that he was so angry with his donkey, that he just wanted to vent his anger, so he told her how he was feeling.
    Spiritual pride blinds us, just like any other type of pride.

    Finally, Balaam sees what is happening. All of a sudden, he realizes what God really wants. He also realizes that the donkey that he was furious with had just saved his life three times. The prideful prophet came back down to earth.

    God lays it all out for Balaam. Balaam’s donkey had more spiritual wisdom this day than Balaam, the “man of God.”

    After they arrive, King Balak tries to get Balaam to curse the Israelites. Three times, Balaam had Balak set up seven altars and sacrifice seven bulls and seven rams. Each time, God tells Balak to bless Israel, not curse them. God even has Balaam prophesy something very profound – something we all need to remember.

    God told Balaam not to go, but he wanted to anyway. This almost cost him his life.
    God is telling Balak that Israel is blessed, not cursed. Balak is not willing to accept that, though. This will end very badly for him and all those with him.
    When God says something, we need to accept it. God has promised good things for us. We simply need to accept what He has given us.

    It seems that Balaam went home.

    The next chapter says that the Midianites and Moabites enticed the Israelites to come worship their false gods with them. Many Moabite women also came into the camp of Israe, tempting the men to sin with them sexually. God sent a plague among the people, and 24,000 of them died.

    In chapter 31, God tells Moses to “Take full vengeance for the sons of Israel on the Midianites.” The Moabites and Midianites were actually attacking the Israelites by enticing them to sin. That’s why God told them to destroy the nation. The Israelites killed the men of Midian, but spared the women. This is not what God had said, though.

    Balaam came back and told Balak there was only one way to defeat Israel. Balaam could not curse Israel, because God had blessed them. If Israel turned away from God, though, Balaam knew God would judge them.
    Because of his greed, Balaam sold out God’s people. Balaam chose riches in this life. Maybe he thought he could repent later. It looks like that didn’t happen, though.

    If we look back a few verses, we see what happened with Balaam. He chose to side with Midian, instead of God’s people, so he was also judged and killed along with the other enemies of God’s people.
    Many years later, God used this as an example of sin in the early Christian church.

    Yes, Balaam was a prophet, but he chose the way of sin. God will use whomever or whatever He chooses (even a donkey). That does not guarantee that someone is pleasing to God, though. Look at what Jesus said.

    God is looking at our hearts. It’s true that our deeds (our fruit) will show our hearts. It’s also true that people can do good things for bad reasons. Serving God is simple – we just need to love Him, spend time with Him, and do what He says, not what we say.
    We all make choices every day. The most important choice we can ever make is to serve God, not the fake riches of this world.

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  • New Life Choices

    If I’m holding a glass, then I drop it on a hard floor, it will break. It doesn’t matter if I want it to break, it’s going to happen. After it breaks, I might really wish it wasn’t broken, but it will still be in pieces on the floor. That’s the way that life is.
    We are the result of our choices. If we make good choices, we will have better consequences than if we make bad choices.
    Genetics can play a role (I was never going to be tall enough to play in the NBA). It also matters who we grow up with and where. At the end of the day, though, we all are responsible for our lives.
    Many people have had horrible childhoods, yet they became very happy, successful adults. Others have had everything good handed to them growing up, but they became miserable, ungodly adults.
    We all have good and bad things happen to us. How we choose to address them defines who and what we will become.

    One day, an expert in the Jewish law asked Jesus a question

    There are literally hundreds of commandments in the Old Testament. Jesus told this man that it can all be boiled down to these two commandments, though. God has always been showing us His love, and looking for us to love Him back. If we love someone, we will only do what we believe is good for them.
    We can even see this in the Ten Commandments. The first four speak to our relationship with God, the others outline our relationship with each other. Through it all, it’s all about love.

    Notice that these are commandments, not suggestions. God expects us to keep them. If we don’t, there will be negative consequences, just like the negative consequences from dropping the glass. Some people think that God wants to keep us from being happy. It’s actually just the opposite. These commandments are here to show us how to have a truly joyful life (and eternal life).

    The word “idolatry” actually means placing our main affection or desire on anyone or anything over God Himself. He wants, and deserves, to be far more important than anything or anyone else. He created us for this purpose — to love Him!

    In most of the Western world today, people are not bowing down and worshiping statues necessarily. I believe the most common idol that people have made and worship is so-called “science.” They will typically claim that they believe in “science”, not God. By its definition, that is making and worshiping an idol. By doing this, people are showing their own arrogance and pride. True science, however, is based on facts, not assumptions. When someone makes the statement that they won’t even consider the existence of God, but they will believe in the Big Bang Theory and evolutionary theory instead, they actually violate a major point of true science. They are refusing to accept all possible answers to a question, even though their own theories cannot be proven.

    If someone applies for a credit card or a loan using someone else’s name, it’s a crime. They used the other person’s good name and credit under false pretenses. That’s similar to what happens when someone takes God’s name in vain. It’s when someone “curses” using God’s name, but they are not actually calling out to Him. It reduces the majesty and glory of God in that person’s eyes, when He should be exalted and praised forever for His lovingkindness and goodness to all of us.

    In Jesus’ day, the Pharisees and Sadducees had added numerous things to God’s law, including the Sabbath day. They actually claimed that Jesus (the Son of God) was a sinner, because he healed people on the Sabbath. This is what Jesus said.

    God established the Sabbath day when He rested from creating the universe in six days. He has unlimited power and energy, so He did not need to rest; He rested to give us an example.

    The next six commandments in Exodus 20 deal with our relationships with each other. If we truly love each other, these are things that we will be doing — not because we are forced to, but because we want to. Love leads us to do loving things.

    Paul points out in Ephesians 6:2 that this is the first commandment with a promise.

    Most people would like to live long, prosperous lives. This is one major way to accomplish that. As we grow up, we want to think for ourselves and not be forced to do what someone else tells us to. Our parents have lived longer than we have, so they have probably been through what we are going through right now. They also probably love us with a love that is like no other.
    Some people feel that their parents don’t deserve their love, because of their actions or words over the years. Unfortunately, in some cases, that might be true. On the other hand, this might just be an opportunity to show forgiveness.
    At the same time, notice the promise that God gives: “that your days may be prolonged in the land which the LORD your God gives you.” This is a promise for the son or daughter who is honoring their father and mother.
    Just as forgiving someone benefits the person who is doing the forgiving, honoring your parents benefits the one doing the honoring.

    As we see in other scriptures, this does not include execution after a person has been convicted of a capital crime (such as murder). It also does not include defending yourself or others, such as in a time of war.
    Murder is the taking of a human life, with the explicit exceptions just mentioned. It is especially heinous, because it is destroying someone who was created in the image of God. This includes suicide. God has created each of us in His image. Life is hard, but God can give you the strength to overcome, if you trust and follow Him.
    Science has confirmed to us that an unborn child is a human who only needs a safe place to be fed, nurtured, and grow. This is the same as a newborn child. Viewing life in this way (which is also confirmed in scripture — see Jer.1:5 and Gal.1:15), we can see that abortion is actually murder.

    God created Adam and Eve. He created them to be married to each other for their entire lives. Some people have said that we were never intended to be married for many years. I think that Adam and Eve, along with billions of others, disprove that idea.
    Remember how Jesus said that the greatest commandments were to love God and to love your neighbor as yourself. If you love your spouse, you won’t commit adultery against them. If you truly love someone else’s spouse, you won’t commit adultery with them. Loving God also means that you will keep yourself pure, no matter what our society says is okay. This means waiting to have sex until you have made the lifelong commitment of marriage, then keeping yourself only for your spouse.
    This is how God created us to live, and this is how we can show true love, not what the world around us claims love is.

    Love wants the best for the other person. Stealing is the opposite of that love. Stealing is done by someone who only cares for himself. It can be taking someone else’s car or watch. It can also be eating a grape at the grocery store without paying for it. How much something costs is not the point. The point is taking something that does not belong to you.

    We should be giving to others, not taking from them; generosity not greed.

    Just like with stealing, God doesn’t say, “It’s okay to lie as long as you think it’s not a big lie.” There is no such thing as “a little white lie.” What God is specifically saying here is saying something bad or negative about someone else that you know is not true. This could be a political “opponent”, a coworker, or a former friend. Lying might seem like the easiest or most effective tool at the time, but it’s almost always a bad decision. It’s definitely not the loving decision.

    Coveting simply means to desire greatly. I learned a long time ago that I will never be the best or worst at anything. I will never be the best looking or the richest or the most popular. There can only be one best of any particular thing, and chances are you won’t be the best, either. That means that you might be tempted to be jealous of what someone else has. This can lead to anger, lying, or many other things that are the opposite of love.
    Instead of jealousy, we should be happy for others when they are doing well. We should also be thankful to God for what we have. Being jealous of someone else means we are blaming God for not giving us what we think we deserve.
    Paul, once again, had the right attitude.

    If we look at every situation in our lives as an opportunity to be thankful to God for what He has given us, as well as an opportunity to show His love to God and others, we will live the joyful, happy, content, and blessed life that He intends for each one of us.

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