Author: Bert Mendelson

  • Step Into the Light

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    Have you ever been in a dark room, maybe waking up in the middle of the night? When you look around, it’s surprising how many things you can actually see. Maybe the only light you have is peeking through your window blinds or curtains. You might only have the light from the little LED on your smoke alarm or digital clock. If this was all you knew, you might think it wasn’t too bad. You can see some things, and you can feel your way around what you can’t see.

    Then, you turn on the light switch. At first, you can’t see anything, because your eyes are used to the darkness. You might even be tempted to turn off the light, because it’s hurting your eyes. If you keep the light on and let your eyes adjust, you start to see things that you missed before. Someone left their shoes in the middle of the floor, and you were about to trip over them. You never noticed the painting that was on the wall. The furniture that you could just make out before now is suddenly visible. Colors appear everywhere that weren’t there before, beautiful details that you just couldn’t see.

    What if you had decided that turning on that light switch hurt your eyes too much, that the darkness was good enough? Think about all that you would miss — the tripping hazards, the vibrant colors, the beautiful details.

    Our spiritual life is a lot like that light switch. It’s definitely easier to just stay in the dark. It takes work to live out a Christian life. When we first turn on the “light switch” by committing our lives to Jesus, we begin to see things more clearly. As we get closer to Jesus and become more like Him, we see even more.

    There are many “tripping hazards” in this life — things that we can’t see without God’s help.

    Satan hates God, because he wants to be God. Thankfully, he never will be. We could get into the history of how and why, but for now, we just need to know that because we were created in the image of God, Satan also hates us and wants to destroy our lives.

    Satan doesn’t usually appear to someone and tell them what he is planning on doing. He usually disguises himself and pretends to be an “angel of light.” Unfortunately, there are many people who either knowingly or unknowingly choose to follow him and become his servants.
    These are tripping hazards. The only way to avoid them is by turning the light on them. Then, you will see them for who they really are. Otherwise, if all you listen to is what they say, it will begin to make sense. In reality, though, you are still stumbling around in the dark.

    There are many people who write books and give seminars about their own philosophies on life and the afterlife. Usually, the message will talk about how there are many ways to heaven, and we just need to be sincere and be a “good person.” Of course, they will define the “good” part however people will want to hear. These people are teaching others about things that they don’t even understand. They pretend to be experts or have some special revelation from God, but they are clueless to the true ways of God, teaching people their own false ideas, leading them further and further away from the truth.

    It’s been said that people do the things that they want to do because that’s what they want to do. If I really want to keep living the way that I am living, I will find someone else to agree with me. If they tell me that God approves of what I’m doing, that’s even better.
    These “myths” come in many shapes and sizes. They might say that they have a “special revelation” from God. They could claim that an angel or a vision appeared to them.
    Many people say that they believe in “science” (however they define/twist that word), but they can’t believe in the supernatural.
    All of these are myths, because they are denying the truth of God.

    Elisha and his servant were not men of war. All around them was an army with thousands of trained soldiers, with weapons and chariots. Understandably, the servant was more than a little fearful. The prophet Elisha, though, could see past the natural into the supernatural. He saw that he had nothing to fear.

    Lord, open our eyes to see You and what You are doing!

    Our eyes need to be “enlightened”, have more spiritual light. The more light that we have, the more of God’s “riches” we will see. There is so much more for us to see, if we could only see it. God’s glory, His greatness, His majesty are right there in front of us. How can we see them?

    Some people define an open mind as someone who will believe and accept anything. That can be extremely dangerous. If I went out and ate anything and everything that I saw, I would probably get very sick. What we need is for God to open our minds to understand His ways and what He is doing.

    Jesus’ disciples had spent over three years living with Him, but they still did not know who He really was. They needed Jesus to open their minds, so they could understand all of the Old Testament scriptures that had predicted His life, death, and resurrection. Without God’s help — His light — we cannot understand the Bible. There are people who read the Bible and consider it great literature, but they miss the whole point. The Bible is there to open our minds to understand and our spiritual eyes to see the incredible forgiveness we have available in Jesus Christ, and the riches of His presence in our lives today.

    Jesus said that He was sending the Holy Spirit, Who would teach us all things and help us to remember the words of Jesus. Without the Holy Spirit teaching us, we are stumbling in the dark. He is our guide, our companion, our tutor.

    God’s word, the Bible, will help light the way. Like a flashlight on a hike in the woods, it can keep us from falling off of a cliff or running into a bear. If you are walking in an unfamiliar place in the darkest night with no moonlight and clouds obscuring the stars, you would be very thankful for the flashlight to guide you safely home.

    Peter was an eyewitness of Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection. He was there on the Day of Pentecost when the Holy Spirit fell on him and others, like tongues of fire over each of their heads. He touched the Light of God — Jesus — every day for over three years. When he says that the Bible is a lamp shining in a dark place, we can believe Him.

    Stepping into God’s light of salvation in Jesus is just like turning on the light switch in your room. All of a sudden, you can see things that might have tripped you up. You can see what lies ahead of you, and you can see the details and beauty that was impossible to see before.
    Trust in Jesus. Study His Word, the Bible. Spend time meeting with Him in prayer. Do this every day, and you will see your life suddenly getting brighter and brighter, until we are all standing in the presence of God forever.

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  • What Is Heaven?

    God has created many beautiful things. Sometimes, we might wonder if it can get any better than this, but is there more after this life? God wrote a lot about this in His message to us, the Bible, so it seems that it’s something that He really wants us to know. What is waiting for us after this life is over will greatly affect how we live our lives today.

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    a group of people sitting in a park

    In movies, we see many different ideas of what heaven is like. Usually, they will say that it’s whatever a person loves the most. Everyone seems to get their own “personal” heaven.

    People have made up their own religions where “heaven” is their idea of wonderful. Some say that if you are good enough, you can get to a state where you are part of nothing. I suppose that if you live in a very noisy area, that might seem nice.
    Others would say that if you fight for that religion, you will get many wives.
    Usually, heaven in these religions is for people who have done good things or lived good lives. What does God say about heaven?

    Jesus said this.

    Jesus said that there are many places to live in His Father’s house (God’s house). He said that He was going there to prepare a place for His people. So, we see these things about this scripture.

    • There are many dwelling places (so we won’t run out of space or feel cramped).
    • Jesus went to prepare this place for His followers.
    • He will come back one day and take His followers there.
    • Jesus and His followers will be together.
    • This body in which we live is temporary, like a tent.
    • God has prepared a place for us that is eternal — it never goes away.
    • It is in the heavens.
    • It is so much better than what we have now, it’s like not even having clothes to wear or a place to stay.
    • Our current country is not permanent.
    • God’s country is better.
    • It is a heavenly country.
    • God is not ashamed of His followers.
    • God prepared this city for them.

    As we said earlier, most religions say that you have to do certain things to earn a place in heaven. We all know ourselves, though. Do we honestly think that we can be good enough to deserve something as incredible as this heaven that we have been reading about? What does the Bible say?

    If we don’t deserve heaven, and we can’t possibly earn it, what can we do?

    Because of God’s love and mercy, He took our place on the cross. This is not something that we deserved or could possibly earn. It’s a free gift.
    Notice that this is past tense. Paul is saying that God already did this. He already entitled us to having a place with Jesus, a place where He will show us “the surpassing riches of His grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus.”

    There are dangers that we have to avoid, and challenges that we have to overcome. This life is not easy.

    There are times that we might be tempted to be satisfied with what we have, thinking that we are doing well. If only we could see things the way that God sees them, we would see things quite differently.
    We think we’re rich; God says we are poor.
    We think we can see everything clearly; God says that we are blind.
    God even tells us that the beautiful clothing of religion that we wear is actually like the emperor’s clothes in the old children’s story. Just because someone tells you that you’re okay doesn’t mean that you are.

    My opinion of myself is not accurate.
    The opinions of others are not accurate.
    Only God’s opinion is real.

    If God says that He is my only hope, I can believe Him.

    As we said earlier, what waits for us after this life will greatly affect how we live our lives. That’s because how we live our lives today greatly affects what happens to us after this life. We can’t earn heaven, but what we do makes a difference.

    Notice:

    • The “eternal fire” was prepared for the devil and his angels.
    • The punishment is eternal (never ends).
    • The reward (life) is also eternal.
    • There is a separation between the two groups.

    As we saw in Matthew 24, this lake of fire and brimstone (sulfur) was created as a punishment for the devil and his angels, not originally for people. If people choose to follow the devil, and not God, they will follow him all the way into eternal, never-ending torment.

    If our names are in the Lamb’s book of life, we will be spared that torment, as we see in verse 15 above.

    This is what we see in this passage.

    • There is a way to get our names in the “book of life.”
    • It is possible for our names to be erased from this book.
    • There is something for us to overcome.
    • If we overcome, Jesus will tell His Father and the angels that we belong to Him.

    The only way for us to overcome is to depend on Jesus. He overcame death and the grave, because He paid for our sins by His sacrifice. As we have seen, it’s impossible for us to be “good enough” to earn heaven. Jesus had to do it, and He did. All we have to do is worship Him, trust Him, and follow what He tells us to do in the Bible. If we do, He says that we have a new city waiting for us.

    God is going to wipe out heaven and earth, because we have corrupted it. He is preparing a new Jerusalem, His holy City.

    To put this in perspective, 1500 miles is about the distance from Louisiana to New England. That’s how long, wide, and tall the city is. That leaves plenty of room for everyone who has ever existed.

    We won’t need to go somewhere special to meet with God, because He will always be there with us. We also won’t need the sun or any other light, because God Himself will be there. His glory will be brighter than our own sun.

    Everyone needs water to sustain life. God will give us pure water that comes straight from His throne, providing constant, renewing, refreshing, eternal life. There will also be a tree of life that will always be bearing fruit. The curse that we all received when Adam and Eve sinned in the Garden of Eden is broken. The tree of life, from which they should have been eating, will be there for us.
    To show that we are children of God, we will have His name on our foreheads. This will be a constant reminder that we no longer have anything to fear. We are now part of the family of God, and that will never change — for all eternity!

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  • Hot Cold or Lukewarm?

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    Ever hear someone walk into a coffee shop and ask for a lukewarm coffee? I’m sure it probably happens, but not very often. Usually, they will order either hot or iced coffee, nothing in between. That’s like what God told the church in Laodicea.

    These were people who probably started their Christian lives “on fire”, excited about serving Jesus. As time went by, things happened. They probably experienced persecution from the Roman government, the Jewish people, and other non-Christians. We see from other parts of the New Testament that they also had a number of false teachers coming in and telling them things that were not true. It’s easier to “go with the flow” than it is to swim against the current. Just because everyone around you says something doesn’t necessarily make it right.

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    The church in Laodicea viewed themselves as rich, needing nothing. Jesus told them they were sadly mistaken. He said that they were “wretched and miserable and poor and blind and naked”, the opposite of what they thought of themselves. How could they be so wrong? How could they be that blind to their actual condition?

    Jesus told a parable of a rich farmer who became so prosperous that his barns could not hold all of his crops, so he planned to tear down his current barns and build new ones. That was never going to happen, though

    This man had spent his whole life planning for his retirement. It seems that he had neglected his relationship with God, because he was working so hard. Many times, people convince themselves that what they are doing at the moment is vitally important. They might say that they can’t afford to take time to go to church or read their Bible. They might even convince themselves that saying a “few words in prayer” before they go to sleep will be enough for God.
    How many marriages would last if that’s how the husband and wife treated each other? Do we really think that God is okay with us neglecting Him all day long, then trying to “placate” Him with a few words as we fall asleep?

    In Revelation, Jesus told the church in Ephesus that they were doing some things well, but they had a glaring problem — they had left their first love.

    About 30 or 40 years before this was written, the apostle Paul had been preaching and teaching in the city of Ephesus. There was a tremendous revival happening, and the people were definitely “on fire” for Jesus. Somewhere along the line, they had become complacent, and they had “fallen into a rut.”
    This can happen with friends, family members, or others. We might say things like, “they know I love them”, but do they really know that? When was the last time you told God you loved Him (not just singing words in a song)?

    It’s easy to think of God’s Holy Spirit as a thing, the way that we think of a “prideful spirit” or a “loving spirit” in a person. That’s not who He is, though. He is a person, the same as God the Father or Jesus. As a person, He also has emotions. When we do things that are wrong, He is grieved. In the same way, God the Father and Jesus show us their emotions.

    God created us in His image, along with His emotions. He can love, get angry, be hurt, and long to spend time with us. I believe that is why He created us — because of His great love for us, even before we and the universe existed.
    We see in Genesis how God used to walk through the Garden of Eden with Adam, spending time with him, enjoying each other’s company — until Adam sinned. That created the first division between God and mankind. Ever since then, God has been calling us back to Himself.

    God told the church in Laodicea that He was standing at the door of their hearts, wanting to come into their lives. If they did, God said that they would spiritually share a meal together and fellowship together.
    God doesn’t just want us to eventually open the door to Him, though; He wants us to seek Him out, as well.

    In the original language of the New Testament, Greek, the passage reads more like, “ask (and keep asking) and it will be given to you; seek (and keep seeking) and you will find; knock (and keep knocking) and it will be opened to you.” If all we do is pray one time, then if we don’t get exactly what we want, we say that God doesn’t exist, we have missed the whole point. God wants a friendship, even a marriage with us. Simply attending a church service and following a ritual (every denomination has them) won’t do. Praying a poem before you eat won’t do. Reading a quick devotional won’t do. All of these are good things, but they’re not enough.

    God wants all of our heart, soul, and might. Just a little is not enough. What if we approached every relationship this way? I think we would all have far fewer problems.

    Anything short of everything
    is not enough.

    Jesus said that He was going to spit these people out of His mouth. This is like what we would do if someone handed us a cup of motor oil and told us it was our favorite drink. One taste, and we would spit it out of our mouths. No matter what the other person said, we would know that what we just tasted was disgusting.
    The Laodicean church was still meeting together, praying, and doing “religious” things. They were telling themselves and God that this was His favorite drink. Jesus had to set them straight.

    The people thought that they were doing well, but they weren’t. They had nothing; they needed everything. All of what they thought was worthwhile was not. They needed to throw away everything they had spiritually, and buy everything new. Jesus said that they needed to buy this from Him. Most of what we consider valuable, He says is worthless. There is only one thing that we have that God considers valuable — ourselves.

    Without Jesus’ sacrifice, we are hopeless. Without His riches, we are bankrupt. Without His love, we have nothing. The least we can do is offer ourselves to Him. He deserves all of our praise, glory, and honor.

    Something that we humans cannot fully comprehend is God’s forgiveness. Even when we totally blow it, He reaches out to correct us and draw us back to Himself.

    God loves us enough to discipline us and show us where we are going wrong. Even while disciplining us, He continues to tell us He loves us and wants to spend time with us. God never abandons His children.

    After His correction, Jesus tells them that if they will open the door of their hearts to Him, He will let them reign on His throne forever. In other words, He is promising us eternity in heaven with Him — forever!

    Jesus is calling. Are we listening? Are we willing to take a good, honest look at our lives, and go all-in for Jesus?

    Lord, open our eyes to see what You see.
    Help us to return to our first love.
    Show us what we need to change,
    and give us the strength and courage to change.
    You are all we need and want.
    You are our all in all.
    In Jesus’ Name, amen.

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  • Light or Darkness?

    The word “hate” is being used a lot lately. It seems our world is becoming more and more polarized. When others constantly accuse you of being hateful or unloving, there is a tendency to doubt yourself. You begin asking yourself, “Is it true? Do I hate other people?” The apostle John saw some of the same things in his day. His words can help us to get back to the truth, and determine if we are in the Light or darkness.

    The apostle John focuses quite a bit on truth. Jesus said that the devil is a liar and the father of lies.

    When someone accuses of being a certain way or believing something, take a moment to stop and think about what they are saying. Is it really true? If not, then don’t receive it. In other words, don’t let it affect you.
    Next, choose how you are going to respond. Remember, always act, never react. How would Jesus respond to this type of accusation? You want to let the other person know that they are mistaken, but you want to say it in love.

    John was known as the Apostle of Love. This is a major theme in his writings. We, as Christians, love others, because Jesus loved us first. He gave all that He had so that we could be forgiven of our sins and spend eternity with Him. With that kind of love as our example, of course we are going to love others.

    These are the words of Jesus. True Christians have love for each other. Conversely, those without love are not true Christians. The apostle John said that there were people in his day who used to be among them, but they left, because they did not really believe in Christ, and they did not want to serve Him.

    Just because someone claims to be a Christian doesn’t make it so. I could say that I’m the greatest basketball player ever (I’m not), but unless I prove it to you, you probably wouldn’t believe me. If someone tells me that they are a Christian, but they are yelling at me, telling me that I hate them (when I don’t), I’m not going to believe what they are saying.

    This is where we need to know who we are and what we believe. If we are speaking the truth in love, it is not hate! Jesus always spoke the truth in love, but he constantly had people angry with Him. The religious leaders even conspired together to lie and have Jesus put to death. They convinced themselves that they were doing what was best for the people. They knew that lying and murder was wrong, but they managed to justify it to themselves.

    Don’t tell me you love me; show me.

    If we know that we are following Christ and love Him sincerely, we don’t need to doubt ourselves. We aren’t depending on our own good works or abilities. We are depending on His. Jesus did the work. He paid the price, made the way, showed us the way, then drew us to Himself. Look in verse 22: “having our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water.” This is what Jesus did for us and to us. If God says that I am clean, who am I to disagree? Who is anyone else to disagree? What right does anyone else have to say that I’m not?

    At the same time, we need to guard our hearts, so that we don’t become prideful and think that we are better than anyone else. That’s what starts the whole downward spiral.

    The Bible says that as Christians, we are all part of the body of Christ. If a part of our body is hurting, we take care of it. We don’t hurt it more.
    We should always look for ways to help each other, not hurt each other.

    Without forgiveness, there is no love. Love cannot exist where there is unforgiveness. We will inevitably say or do something to offend each other, even with the best intentions. If we are willing to forgive the other person, we are showing them true love. If we say that they need to pay or suffer for what they said or did, that’s not love.

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  • Living Godly

    Jesus told us that we had to deny ourselves, take up our own crosses, and follow Him.

    Thankfully, these days, most of us don’t have to worry about being physically crucified, just because we choose to follow Jesus, but the principle still applies. In the book of 2 Peter, the apostle Peter gives us several practical examples of how we should live. This is for our own benefit (becoming more like Christ), the benefit of our family and friends, and the benefit of everyone else around us.

    In the beginning of Peter’s second letter, he is offering a blessing to the recipients of the letter. He wishes “grace and peace be multiplied to you in the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord.” Grace has been described as a free gift. It is something that we have not earned, nor do we have the ability to earn it. God gives us the free gift of grace because of His love for us.

    Godly peace is more than just being able to relax after a hard day at work or school or watching the kids. Godly peace is what we can have when we realize that God has forgiven us of our sins — not because of what we have done, but because of what Jesus has done.

    This peace is special, obtained only through the grace of Jesus Christ. This is what He told His disciples shortly before He was crucified.

    This is not something that we can find on our own. It’s not something that we can make or buy. Only Jesus can give us this peace. The great thing is that Peter told us that we could have this peace abundantly, being multiplied in our lives.

    God’s divine power “has granted to us everything pertaining to life and godliness.” We don’t have to try to be good enough to win a place in heaven; Jesus paid the price for us, and now His power, through the Holy Spirit, gives us everything we need to live an abundant and godly life. How? It’s “through the true knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and excellence.”

    We all have a desire to be “special” in some way. God tells us that we can share in (“be partakers”) of His divine nature. When God created Adam, He breathed His own life into Adam, making him a living being.

    We are more than flesh and blood; we have God’s divine (godly) spirit (breath) inside of each one of us. At the same time, we have all inherited a sinful nature from our parents, Adam and Eve. There is nothing that we could possibly do on our own, so God Himself provides the way.

    This is not just forgiveness of sin. He is making a way for us to avoid being destroyed by the world and its ways.

    Peter now gives us a list of actions and attitudes that we can apply to our lives. He first tells us to apply “all diligence.” If we want to make a real change to be godly, we can’t do it half way; we have to be “all in” and be willing to do the hard work, striving toward our goal.

    If we look carefully at Peter’s list, we will see certain actions — things we should be doing — along with attitudes — ways we should be thinking or feeling about ourselves, other people, and God. We could classify them this way.

    When we take these actions, our attitudes or way of thinking will change. When we change our attitudes, our actions will also naturally change.

    The word translated here “moral excellence” comes from a root word referring to a man or boy. In other words, manliness. God is saying that we should act the way that He originally created Adam — with virtue and morals, not with sinful actions. “Being a man” does not mean dominating other people. It means doing what is right and treating everyone with respect and love, seeking what is best for them, not ourselves.
    Note that in the Greek language of the day, this term derived from a masculine root, but it was applied to men, women, and children alike. Having moral excellence does not make someone weak. It makes them strong, and it shows their strength to others.

    We have probably all heard someone say that they don’t believe in faith or religion, because they believe in science — facts. Many people that we think of as great contributors to modern scientific thought and processes were Christians. True knowledge looks for facts. There are some things that we can know for sure, and other things that we can’t. For example, there is no way to prove how the universe was created using the scientific method, because there is no way for anyone to perform an experiment to test their theory (by creating another universe).
    There are other things, however, that we can see. When I see someone living an unruly, ungodly life, I usually see pain, suffering, agony, and despair. When I see someone else living a godly life, I usually see peace, contentment, and joy. Everyone goes through hard times. Christians have the Holy Spirit to be there with them and comfort them. This knowledge can help us get through those hard times.

    It’s easy to fight back when someone says or does something that you don’t like. It’s much harder to control yourself. We should always act, never react. If we react to what other people do, we are letting them control our lives. If we choose to control our temper, our fleshly desires, and what we might want in this life, we will find that we can “overwhelmingly conquer” in this life (Romans 8:37).

    Perseverance is more than continuing on when things are hard. It is an attitude of knowing that you will overcome, no matter what things look like right now.

    God promises us that we will eventually reap (harvest our crops) if we don’t grow weary (persevere). God’s riches and blessings (not always money) are waiting for us, if we don’t give up. Sometimes, it’s simply a matter of standing on the promises that God has given you, even when everything around you says that it’s impossible.

    The Greek word used here for godliness means to act in a godly, pious way, both toward God and other people. It is an action word. It’s not just a matter of not doing wrong. It’s also a matter of doing what is right. Godliness is living, actively, the way that Jesus lived on this earth.

    There are several words in the Greek language that are translated “love” in our Bibles. This word means “brotherly love”, the kind of love that someone would have for a brother or sister. This is how we should treat each other, not just our family members. If we are relating to another Christian, we actually are brothers and sisters, because we are part of the family of God.

    Peter then uses the word, “agape.” This is another Greek word for love. It carries the idea of more than just a brotherly love. It is a love for everyone, putting the needs and desires of others before ourselves. The Bible uses this word to describe the love that God has for us, as well as our love toward God and other people. It is truly a selfless love.

    Putting this all in context, we can see how Peter comes to his conclusion in verse 8.

    Lord, help us to all be useful and fruitful to You and Your kingdom, in Jesus’ name!

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  • Community

    In the beginning, there was God. He has always existed in the persons of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. God is all love – the very definition of love.

    Because of God’s love that He had for us, even before we existed, He created us. From the very beginning, God knew that it was not good for us to be alone.

    God created all of the animals and brought them to Adam. I’m sure they were all very friendly, but they still didn’t meet a need that Adam had for true fellowship, so God created Eve.

    We now had the beginning of the first family, and the first community. It seems that God used to walk and commune with Adam and Eve on a regular basis (Gen.3:8-9). This was the perfect world that God had created — Adam and Eve enjoying each other’s company and the world that God had given them, while God fellowshipped with and enjoyed their company.

    The word “fellowship” means two or more people talking and sharing with each other. It’s not where one person talks and the other always listens. In a good friendship, both people feel comfortable with the other person, and they both take turns talking, listening, sympathizing, and loving.
    God created Adam and Eve in His own image. Because God has always existed in three Persons (Father, Son, and Holy Spirit), and we were created in His image, we have the same desire and even need to be with other people.

    More than just being created in His image, we even have His Spirit.

    The family is the beginning and foundation of every godly community. It is what God established and what He commanded from the very beginning.

    Today, we see many people attacking the traditional family (husband, wife, children). They might say that the Bible’s definition of a family is old-fashioned and outdated. These arguments are nothing new. We have seen throughout history where people have tried creating other “societies” where they refuse to follow the traditional pattern of marriage. Every culture that has tried this has failed. God created us to live as families. We can even see in every study that has looked at the subject, people in jail are overwhelmingly from a home where the father is not there. We also see increased poverty, teenage pregnancy, and emotional issues.
    Keeping a family together takes work. It starts by putting God in the center of it, and teaching/leading your family in His ways.

    We see throughout history that people have formed communities. This way, they can be there to help each other and enjoy the company of each other. Some people prefer smaller towns, and others prefer large cities. We all have a need to be with others in some capacity.

    Whenever you have two or more people together, eventually someone will say or do something that will hurt the other person. It might be intentional or unintentional. That’s what usually breaks up marriages. A marriage usually starts with two people deeply in love, willing to commit themselves to each other for the rest of their lives. Over time, things will happen. People, by our nature, are selfish. We want our own way. When we don’t get it, we get upset. This can cause distrust, jealousy, anger, and pain. This is not just with marriages. Every relationship between two people (friendship, work, etc.) will have these pressures. How can we avoid them? If the relationship is already damaged, how can we fix it?

    Jesus loved us so much, He died on the cross, taking our sins on Himself, so that our sins could be forgiven. This made the way for our relationship with Him to be restored. At the same time, He expects us to be willing to forgive each other.

    What the first slave owed was more than he could have possibly earned in over 10,000 years! By comparison, his fellow slave owed him about five months wages. That is a lot of money, but compared to what he was just forgiven, it was nothing. Jesus was saying that it is the same way with us. God has forgiven us more than we can ever imagine. If we are unwilling to forgive someone else, even if it was an intentional, horrible offense, we are not worthy of Christ’s forgiveness.
    As Jesus taught us to pray:

    Just in case we had any doubts, Jesus laid it out clearly.

    The forgiveness of our own sins is contingent on our forgiveness of others. I have had people try to justify their own unforgiveness — what the other person did was “unforgivable”; what they did hurt me too much; why should I forgive them if they aren’t even sorry?

    Jesus did not wait for us to make the first move. He died for us first, showing us what true love truly was.

    Think about the communities we form:

    • Clubs (Rotary Club, golf club, sports club)
    • Bars
    • Social media (Facebook, Instagram, X, etc.)
    • Churches

    Communities can be good or bad. They can either help reinforce good, godly ideals in us, or they can help us justify sinful, evil thoughts and intentions. Remember the definition of fellowship. Both people are sharing and receiving ideas. The people with whom we associate will definitely have an effect on us, and will probably dictate who we become. If you want to be a better person, hang out with better people, read better things, discuss better ideas.

    In the Old Testament, God chose a family of people — the Israelites — and made a nation out of them. Other people could join them, but they had to become part of that nation, agreeing to abide by the laws that God had established for them.
    When Jesus came, He died for everyone, not just the Jewish people. He gave His life for many, not the few. Everyone who comes to Him can find forgiveness of their sins (for more information, click here). You can then become part of the family and body of Christ — the church.

    The church actually refers to the people of God, not a particular building or religion. After Jesus was raised from the dead and people started believing in Him and following Him, look what the early believers were doing.

    This was the natural outpouring of the incredible experience they all just had. When something good happens to you, you want to share it with others. That’s what they were doing. As time went on, the people who did not want to repent of their sins started to persecute them. Since they had already been meeting together and sharing with each other, they could now lean on each other and strengthen each other. People who try to stand alone have a much harder time.

    The early church people went through a lot of persecution, including being thrown in prison, having all of their possessions taken, and even being killed. Non-Christians might not hire them. They might not even sell them food or buy things from them. By meeting with other Christians, people in their community knew that they were Christians. To avoid persecution, some people stopped meeting together. The writer of Hebrews warned of the danger of that practice.

    God intended for the church to be a place where people could encourage each other to live godly lives, even while being persecuted by others. This is also what marriages and families are supposed to be — places of encouragement.
    We see the same thing happening today. Many people have been hurt by what someone else said or did. They will let this experience leave them thinking that’s just the way that churches are. Unfortunately, that’s just the way that people are, not just people in church. As we saw above, this is why we need to freely and openly forgive each other, constantly. What else can we do?

    Why do we have problems with other people? Because we all want our own way (even Christians).

    How do we overcome this? By humbling ourselves like Jesus did and putting the interests of others before our own interests.

    If everyone did this, we would have no conflict in our churches. We would have no conflict at work. We would have no wars.
    The place to start, as always, is with ourselves. It’s been said that if you want a friend, be a friend.

    This is what we call the golden rule. If we want to be treated nicely, treat others nicely, even if they don’t treat you the same.
    Notice, also, that Jesus here is assuming that we will be in a community, not shutting ourselves off from the rest of the world.

    God has called us to be a godly community, encouraging each other, putting our own interests last, and being an example to the rest of the world. Don’t let anything steal your joy and fellowship. The church, like a good marriage, is not perfect, but it is worth fighting for.

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  • Self-made Gospel

    It seems that many people today have their own ideas of the meaning of life, life after death, how to be joyful, and eternity. Movies have been made with the idea of people becoming angels after they die, or they get to go to their favorite place, or many, many other ideas. It’s something that we have all thought about. It’s unknown, so it’s scary. What waits for us after this life (if anything)? Is there a way for us to know the real meaning of life now, as well as what the future holds?

    Jesus said in verse 13 that “the gate is wide and the way is broad that leads to destruction, and there are many who enter through it.” He then said, “the gate is small and the way is narrow that leads to life, and there are few who find it.” For some reason, there is a relatively small number of people who “find” the way that leads to life. This sounds like putting together a large puzzle. It takes work, and not everyone has the patience, but if you persevere, you will reach your goal.

    Jesus in the manger jigsaw puzzle

    Jesus said that people would come who would look like sheep (His followers), but in reality they would be wolves. Wolves are not there to feed sheep; they are there to eat the sheep. As we just saw, we need to be entering through the “small gate” on the “narrow path.” Just because someone says they are from God does not mean that they really are. Even if they appear to perform miracles, that does not necessarily mean they are from God. In the book of Revelation, we see the false prophet making “fire come down out of heaven.”

    In the gospel of Luke, Jesus warned His followers not to be misled. This implies that many people will be misled. He then said that many would come in His name, saying things that are outright lies.

    There is only one God, and only one Jesus. No matter what someone else might say, they will never be God.

    When Jesus Himself comes again (which He will), there won’t be any doubt. Jesus won’t come as someone hiding in some secluded area, forming a cult. He won’t be someone writing a book with a “new revelation.” He won’t even be someone with a large church, claiming to have a better, easier way.

    Even in the apostle Paul’s day, there were people proclaiming a false gospel. Since the word gospel means, “good news”, Paul says that it’s not actually a different gospel. Any other message is not good news, it’s bad news. There can only be one correct answer for 2+2, and Jesus said that there is only one way to heaven.

    Many people say that it doesn’t matter what you believe, as long as you believe in something. That’s not what Jesus said. He said that He was the only way to the Father. Self-made gospels won’t cut it.
    You might be on a road heading east, but you firmly believe, with all of your heart, that you are heading west. It won’t matter how sincere you are or how strongly you believe. It won’t matter how strong your “faith” is. You are still going the wrong way. The only way to head east would be to turn around and go the right direction.

    Imagine being in the presence of Jesus, seeing His miracles, hearing His words, and feeling His love, but you are more concerned about what other people would think of you. This still happens today – people on social media, wanting to be “influencers.” People only posting the good things in their lives, leaving out the rest. It seems many will do almost anything to be seen in a good light. No one wants to have others look down on them. At the end of the day, though, is that what’s most important?

    In the light of eternity, the few years we have on this earth are insignificant. At the same time, what we do now will determine how we spend the rest of eternity. There are people who have become kings, emperors, or conquerors. For a short time, they had it made. Everything they wanted, they could get. Eventually, all of them died. Even in this life, we see that rich and famous people aren’t always happy.

    There’s an old saying: “Money can’t buy happiness.” All the money in the world can’t fill the hole in our souls that only Jesus can fill.

    Jesus goes on to describe how the sheep are those who followed Him and cared for others. The goats were those who cared for themselves, not caring about other people.
    We see that there will definitely be a day when we will all be judged. If we are following Jesus, He says that He will forgive our sins and bring us to heaven with Him. If we follow any other way, we will be separated from Jesus forever, and we will experience torture that was only designed for Satan, not us (verse 41 above).

    Jesus wants only the best for you, and so do we. Living a godly, Christian life brings joy today and eternal life tomorrow. To start this life now, click or tap here. You can also reach us by clicking/tapping here.

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  • Authority with Humility

    Jesus knew that Judas was going to betray Him. He also knew that He was the Son of God, Who had come from His Father and was returning to His Father. He also knew that these things were going to start that very night, so He only had a short time left with His disciples. He wanted them to understand what He had been teaching them for the last few years, so He gave them an object lesson.

    Foot washing in that day was very useful. They typically wore open sandals and walked on dry, dusty roads. These were also roads used by horses, donkeys, and other animals, so they were definitely not clean. Normally, foot washing was done by individuals themselves. If you were a guest in someone’s home, they would usually bring some water for you. If you were a highly honored guest in a wealthy person’s house, they would have one of their servants wash your feet. To wash someone else’s feet was not an honor. It actually showed how the other person was far more honorable. Why would Jesus do this?

    Jesus wanted us to see and follow His example.

    John tells us in his gospel that the Word (Jesus) was God, has always been God, and He always will be God. He also had an equal part in the creation of the universe. This shows us that He had all of the supernatural qualities of God, the Father—eternal life (having been with God from the beginning), omnipotence (He created everything in the universe), and omniscience (fully knowing the mind of the Father and the Holy Spirit).

    Even though Jesus was equal with God the Father, He humbled and submitted Himself to His Father’s will. He “emptied Himself” so that He could become a man. When He became a man, He did not choose to become a rich or powerful man. He chose to be born as a baby into a poor family. He then grew up as a regular boy, then became a typical Jewish man.

    When He started His ministry, no one knew Him, because He had not gone to the “best” schools or grown up with “important” people. For His support, He depended on the contributions of others—some of which were women (yet another “embarrassing” thing). He had humble beginnings and a humble life.

    Being crucified was not just a shameful thing; in the Jewish law, it was a curse. Before He was crucified, He was whipped, mocked, spat upon, and beaten. A rich man gave Him his own tomb, because neither Jesus nor His family had enough money for one themselves.
    During the Last Supper, Jesus knew all of these things were about to happen, yet He still took the time to wash His disciples’ feet.

    Jesus said that He gave us this example, so that we “also should do as I did to you.” How many times, though, do we do just the opposite? If someone does or says something that we don’t like, we get offended. We might even think or even say that we are just as important as they are. “We have rights, after all.

    If we consider others as more important than ourselves, we won’t be worried about being offended or hurt. We will be focused on how we can help those around us.

    We might wonder how we can help others. What can we do?

    There are people all around us who need help. Are we there for them? It can be uncomfortable and even inconvenient. It might cost us money, friends, family, or reputation. If we see Jesus, in His people, needing help, are we willing to take the risk?

    In the early church, we see that there were pastors and elders in each church. They had the responsibility to look after the needs of the people and lead them in their Christian walk.

    Being in a position of leadership can be difficult. Many times, you have to make hard decisions, and if you make a mistake, others will be affected.
    At the same time, some want to be in a position so that they can have power or influence over people. Some even do this to make a lot of money. Peter was telling them that was not right. If we are putting others before ourselves, ungodly ideas won’t even cross our minds. We will simply want to do what is best for others. A leader should live what he teaches others. His or her life should say more than what their mouth says.

    In the Old Testament, we see Moses who led the people of Israel out of slavery in Egypt, defying the king of the most powerful nation in the world at that time. He then led the Israelites for forty years in the desert, while meeting with God personally in the tent of meeting on a regular basis. He had the ultimate authority over all of the people of Israel, with God backing him up, but he never lorded it over them. He remained humble, and allowed God to stand up for him.

    When Paul was a young man, he was very prideful. Before he met Jesus, he persecuted Christians. After he was saved, he submitted himself to the leadership in the church, and God gradually raised him up. He became one of the greatest apostles ever. God brought him up to heaven and showed him things that he was not even allowed to tell anyone else. He had authority over many churches, but he did not exercise it for his own purposes.

    Paul and his travel companions would even work (Paul made tents) quite often, so that they did not have to depend on donations from the churches they were establishing.

    If a husband is going to lead his house as Christ loved the church, he needs to be willing to sacrifice himself—his pride, his finances, his time—for the benefit of his wife and children.

    Most of us are in some type of leadership, whether we realize it or not. You might be a parent, responsible for your children, or you might be a manager or boss, responsible for employees. You might be a friend to someone, not realizing that you are responsible for influencing them in a godly way, leading them to Jesus, and humbly serving them, putting their needs above your very own—just like Jesus did.

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  • Identity

    Who we are to other people, and who we are to ourselves, is what we call our identity. Too often, how people view us is not accurate. We could even say the same about ourselves.
    How do we become who we are? Mainly, through three ways:
    1. Genetics; who we are at birth
    2. Ourselves; what we choose to do and become
    3. Groups; with whom we associate and assimilate
    4. God; if we let Him, God can and will change our lives for the better.

    It’s true that just because God knows the future doesn’t mean He causes everything to happen. For example, He knows that people will do bad things, even though He doesn’t want them to.
    God knew Jeremiah before he was born, and he knew you before you were born. You are special to Him.

    Just like a parent’s children are special to them, we are special to God. He created the whole universe, but we are the only creation made in His own image — in the image of God Himself.
    God did not make a mistake when you were in your mother’s womb. He did not make a mistake when you were born. You are unique; there has never been anyone else exactly like you, and God loves you — the good, the bad, the beautiful, the ugly. So, why are so many people confused about who they are?

    Jesus said that the devil, also called Satan, is not only a liar; he is the father of lies. The devil is pure evil, and he will say anything to harm us, because that is who he is.

    There is an old expression: “The grass is always greener on the other side.” It seems to be human nature to think that other people have it better than we do. In some ways, that could be true; In other ways, not so much. The Apostle Paul went through a lot of suffering and persecution. If anyone had a right to envy others, he did. He didn’t focus on that, though. He said that he found the secret of contentment.

    Paul was saying that he had times when he was prosperous, and there were times when he suffered need. There were times when he had plenty to eat, and times when he went hungry. He learned, though, how to be content in every circumstance. In verse 13, he said, “I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.” That doesn’t mean that he can become Superman. It does mean that he can rejoice in who he is in Christ, knowing that Jesus will provide for him and never leave him alone.

    We might think that we have nothing to offer others around us, or that what they have or who they are is so much better than what we have or who we are. Paul said that was not the case; we are all important in the eyes of God.

    We might think that we have nothing to offer others around us, or that what they have or who they are is so much better than what we have or who we are. Paul said that was not the case; we are all important in the eyes of God.

    Jesus paid the price for our sins. We can’t earn our way to heaven. At the same time, God expects us to do our part. We need to trust Him that He knows what He is doing, and He is working for our own good.

    Just like we saw with Paul, we need to learn how to trust God and be content with who we are and where we are. That’s not to say that we shouldn’t work to be better; of course we should. We just need to be content wherever we are, whether or not we “succeed.”

    Pride can be a tricky thing. One minute, you think you are better than others. The next minute, you find out that you’re not, and your world is shattered. Jesus gave us the perfect example of humility.

    Jesus knew Who He was. He knew that He was God. At the same time, He knew that His place was to willingly submit Himself to His Father. Sometimes, that could be very hard.

    If we put the needs and desires of those around us above our own (as Jesus did), we will find that place of contentment, and won’t be looking to be someone or something else. We can find happiness in our place in Jesus.

    Have you ever seen how people who have been married for a long time start to look more like each other? Quite often, they can even finish each other’s sentences. We influence the people around us, and they influence us. It might be for the better or for the worse. Paul warned the Corinthians and the Ephesians about that.

    Another old saying is, “You are what you eat.” If the only people we associate with are bad, and the only things we hear are lies, we will start to believe them. We will probably also start to spread these same lies to others, because we now think that they are true.
    We see that the opinions of other people can be false, and even our own opinions can be false. So, how can we find out what is true? What is our true identity?

    When we give our lives to Jesus, we are “born again.” Since I was born in the United States, I am a citizen of that country. When I was born again, I became a citizen of that eternal country. My citizenship is part of my identity.

    Jesus said that we are His friends, not His slaves, if we do what He commands us to do.

    If we are led by the Spirit of God, we have become sons (and daughters) of God. We are led by the Spirit of God by:
    • Coming to Jesus, turning away from our sins, and asking Him to forgive us.
    • Doing God’s will.
    • Spending time with God every day (in prayer and worship).

    God created you and loves you. You are special to Him. Focus on Him and enjoy His presence, then you won’t get confused by this world. You will know who you are in Christ: a child of God, beloved by his or her Father!

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  • Abundant Life

    An abundant life — that’s what we all want. Why does it seem so elusive? Jesus said that He came so that we could “have life, and have it abundantly.” So, why don’t we always feel that “abundant life?”

    In the scripture above (John 10:10), Jesus said, “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy.” The thief here ultimately refers to Satan. Satan was an angel who became so prideful that he actually challenged God.

    We might think that was pretty dumb. How could any created person or thing be powerful enough to overthrow God? That is a perfect example of how pride can blind us to even the most obvious things. No one, no matter how powerful or intelligent they are, can even come close to approaching the infinite power and intelligence of God.
    Since God judged him, Satan now hates God. Because we were created in the image of God, Satan hates us, too. He wants to do everything he can to destroy us. If he can’t destroy us, he will try to make us miserable.

    Many people think that having a lot of things will make them happy. Some people are even willing to take things from other people, because that seems easier to them.

    Stealing actually destroys the life of the thief. They think they are getting ahead; they think they are creating an abundant life, but they aren’t. They are ruining their own lives, even if they have many things.

    We spend our lives going to school, work, or other places. We work jobs, so we can make money. Then, we spend the money to buy things. Do we own our possessions, or do they own us? If we are living to simply get more things, thinking that will make us happy, we are in for a rude awakening. Jesus said that even if you have a lot of things, they won’t bring you real life — something worth living for.

    Solomon was king of Israel, King David’s son. He was the richest and wisest person in the world. He had 700 wives and 300 concubines (wives, but without the rights that full wives had). He had an army that could conquer any other army in the world. He used this to expand his kingdom more than anyone before him.
    Even with everything that he had in this life, he recognized that without God, none of it mattered. “Unless the LORD builds the house, they labor in vain who build it.” (Psalm 127:1) Building a life, or things in a life, without God is useless. Even if you have short-term success, it won’t last.

    Adam and Eve had it made in the Garden of Eden. Unfortunately, they gave in to temptation. Because of that, God cursed us work much harder in order to survive.

    We know all too well that it takes hard work in order to “get ahead.” At the same time, we see in Psalm 127 (above) how God tells us that building anything on our own is not the way to go. He also tells us that children are blessings from God. We should enjoy our families and friends. People are eternal souls. As such, the people that we influence in a godly way are all that we can bring into heaven with us. Nothing else in this life is eternal.

    The Apostle Paul was another man who had a lot going for him when he was young. Then, he met Jesus, and he found a much better life. Even though he was put in prison, beaten, mocked, and probably lost his inheritance and family, he considered that it was worth it. Living for Jesus and telling others about this new life was far greater than anything this world had to offer.
    In verse 22 above, Paul references how Jesus saved us from the curse of Adam. Jesus paid the price and took our punishment on Himself. Yes, we still have to work, but we don’t have to live this life on our own, in our own strength.

    With all of the horrible things going on in the world, it’s almost impossible to have peace. Jesus said that He left us with peace. If we give Him all of our worries and cares, we can live in His peace.

    The Bible tells us to give all of our anxiety to Jesus. What we consider major problems in our lives, is nothing for Him; He can handle them. He simply wants us to trust Him. We need to do our part, but after that, trust Him with the outcome.

    How can we live an abundant life? By living it in Jesus, with the help of the Holy Spirit — our Helper and Comforter.

    This is the secret of life — living it with Jesus. Without Jesus, there is no real life. With Jesus, everything around us makes sense. What was a hard life becomes just what Jesus promised: an abundant life.

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